“I began realizing through dating younger men that I was encountering an issue that would quite honestly never have crossed my mind if I had not encountered it so very intimately in person,” Cindy Gallop, creator of MakeLoveNotPorn (NSFW), a generated video-sharing site that shows real couples having sex, tells Bustle. But if you want porn that's not only good but is also inclusive - not to mention realistic - things become a little bit more challenging.īecause a lot of mainstream porn is nothing like real life. Yes, the internet is like 99.9 percent porn - I mean, it feels like you can't click on anything without a random penis popping up on your screen.

Finding the best porn site can be harder than it seems.